This Adoptee Is Worried About Randall on THIS IS US

Seeing the return of THIS IS US was epic, but I'm worried about Randall. In the last episode before the holidays, we were given a peek at Rebecca's memory problems and it was confirmed in this new season that she indeed is suffering from dementia, possibly Alzheimers. Randall, played by Sterling … Continue reading →

How Adoptive Parents Can Foster Self-Acceptance In Their Kids

Self--acceptance is seemingly unattainable for many adoptees and foster kids and adoptive parents can't understand what more they can do. There is something I've discovered that may be valuable to parents in dealing with the dilemma of fostering self-worth and self acceptance in your adopted … Continue reading →

How Adoptive Moms Can Reverse Their Child’s Misplaced Anger

I’m going to ask you to do something in regard to your adopted child’s anger that will likely seem crazy, but hang tight...it will make sense after you read the prescription for helping your child process misplaced anger and find healing from pre-adoption loss. First, think about your … Continue reading →

How To Advocate for Your Adopted Child Amidst Insensitive Remarks

The following chart may come in handy over the holidays, as you will be attending family and public gatherings, where well-intentioned individuals might know your child is adopted, but are nervous about what to say to connect with your family or child. We all get nervous in different situations, … Continue reading →

Why Adopted Kids Reject Their Mom’s Love

Your child wants you to know is that if she doesn't grieve the adoption loss, her ability to receive love or attach emotionally to you and others in meaningful relationships may be seriously hindered. Dr. Daniel N. Stern, professor of psychiatry at Cornell University, says in his book, The … Continue reading →