Sherrie Eldridge Adoption

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  • My Journey Into the World of Adoption, Karen Springs

    Meet the Missionary with A Huge Heart for Adoption

     My journey into the world of adoption began exactly 17 years ago with a visit to an orphanage, a world away from my middle-class American life. It was early November 2004 and I’d arrived in Kyiv, Ukraine, six weeks earlier for what was intended to be an eight-month postcollege ministry adventure. I was twenty-three years […]

    Sherrie Eldridge, Adoption Author

    November 17, 2021
    adopted, foster, parenting
  • One Word Adoptive Parents Must Avoid

    Caustions About the Word Special

    Whenever I teach this point during a training, many parents get upset. I wonder why. Are they offended that they’re saying the wrong word? Are they embarrassed, like someone caught with their pants down? Or, are they ticked off because they supposedly know better than anyone what the child needs…and how the child feels?” Really? Is it about the correctness of the word or how he feels and reacts when singled out?

    Sherrie Eldridge, Adoption Author

    September 7, 2021
    adopted, foster, parenting
    adoptee, attunement, Self worth, special needs
  • The Special Needs of Many Adopted Kids

    How to Know Your Child's Special Needs

    Many adopted children have special needs that adoptive, first, and foster parents must learn  in order to become their child’s #1 cheerleader. Use this list as needed and as age-appropriate for discussing special needs with your child. You might say, “An adopted person wrote a list of her special needs. Would you be interested in seeing it? I’m curious if you identify with any of the needs that are mentioned.”

    Sherrie Eldridge, Adoption Author

    August 29, 2021
    adopted, foster, parenting
    adoptee, special needs
  • My Take On Adoption Reform

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    Unfortunately, the subject of escalating stress between prospective and new moms isn’t discussed by the majority of adoption agencies, child protective services, or adoption professionals. Some agencies are required by State law to provide this type of education and preparation, but for others, it’s too scary to broach the topic. What adoption professional is brave enough to tell prospective parents that their child may reject not only their love, but them? Isn’t this action like throwing a bucket of cold water on the adoptive parent’s desire to adopt? And, do prospective parents really want to hear harsh possibilities? In my research with 50 adoptive moms, the answer is a bold yes.

    Sherrie Eldridge, Adoption Author

    August 18, 2021
    adopted, foster, parenting, adoption professional, adoption reform
    adoption professional, adoption reform
  • Good News for the World of Adoption Via Podcast

    Adoption Freedom Podcast

    My new podcast-20 THINGS ADOPTION-announces good news for the world of adoption! Adoptive moms and traumatized adoptees can now find freedom–adoptees from their painful past and adoptive moms from their painful self (you know, the self that reminds you you’ll never have what it takes to meet the needs of your adopted child). As an adult adoptee in her seventh decades of life, I experienced this freedom nearly three years ago. You see…I was painted into a corner circumstantially and emotionally. Someone in my current life wounded me in a way I didn’t deserve and I hated that person. Through research I learned that I could either forgive the person me or go to the Stress Center. The hate was so strong and I couldn’t get out of the situation, like I was squeezed in a vice. 

    Sherrie Eldridge, Adoption Author

    August 3, 2021
    freedom from painful past, Higher Power
    adoptee freedom, adoptive mom freedom, forgiveness
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