Category: adoptive mama

  • The Special Needs of Adopted Children

    The Special Needs of Adopted Children

    Adopted children have special needs that adoptive, first, and foster parents must learn  in order to become their child’s #1 cheerleader. Use this list as needed and as age-appropriate for discussing special needs with your child. You might say, “An adopted person wrote a list of her special needs. Would you be interested in seeing…

  • How Adoptive Moms Can Reverse Their Child’s Misplaced Anger

    How Adoptive Moms Can Reverse Their Child’s Misplaced Anger

    I’m going to ask you to do something in regard to your adopted child’s anger that will likely seem crazy, but hang tight…it will make sense after you read the prescription for helping your child process misplaced anger and find healing from pre-adoption loss.  First, think  about your reaction to your child’s outbursts, rages, and…

  • Do Adoptees and Foster Kids Have A Right to Be Angry?

    Do Adoptees and Foster Kids Have A Right to Be Angry?

    Hell, yes, we’re angry. Excuse my French…I’m just a veteran adoptee, finally free from adoptee anger’s choking grip, and ready to hunt bear. As you might have surmised from the opening statement, this will not be a feel-good read. No warm fuzzies or heart-shaped emojis. No steaming bedtime tea and cookies. This is a wake-up,…