Category: foster kids

  • The Special Needs of Adopted Children

    The Special Needs of Adopted Children

    Adopted children have special needs that adoptive, first, and foster parents must learn  in order to become their child’s #1 cheerleader. Use this list as needed and as age-appropriate for discussing special needs with your child. You might say, “An adopted person wrote a list of her special needs. Would you be interested in seeing…

  • Please Bring Up My Birth Family for Me?

    Please Bring Up My Birth Family for Me?

    What comes to mind when you think about initiating a conversation with your child about his birth family? Do you feel defensive, like the birth family is the enemy to be avoided at allĀ  costs? Do you feel sad, and does your lip begin to quiver at the thought of their possible presence in your…

  • What May Happen When Adoptees Practice Self-Care

    What May Happen When Adoptees Practice Self-Care

    So, I pulled the poor thing out of the pot, setting it on a nearby wagon. It seemed there was no hope, but it seemed worth a try. That evening, it rained like crazy and the next morning I went out to see the plant, thinking it was totally wiped out by the heavy rains.…