Tag: adopted teens

  • What If Adoptees and Foster Kids Discover They’re Royalty?

    What If Adoptees and Foster Kids Discover They’re Royalty?

    This photograph is fodder for the imagination of foster and adopted kids who need to envision the awesome life God has planned for them. Sherrie provides truths and life purpose that often comes from painful beginnings.

  • Amazing Research News For Birth Mothers and Adoptees

    Amazing Research News For Birth Mothers and Adoptees

    Thanks to science, we now have a deeper glimpse into our Creator’s heart that cherish’s birth mothers and their sacrificial gift in adoption….and for the child that is adopted. We all know from Dr. Thomas Verny in The Secret Life of the Unborn Child that: ~the birth mother’s heartbeat and warmth of her body makes…

  • Reflect Often How You Became An Adoptive or Foster Family

    Reflect Often How You Became An Adoptive or Foster Family

    Without a doubt, you know that an absolute miracle transpired in your heart when you adopted your child. Trying to describe it would be impossible, for it was like a million emotions exploding simultaneously—like fireworks! If I had to pick just one moment of absolute, unadulterated joy it would be the moment I saw her…

  • Yikes…Tell the WHOLE Truth?

    Many parents who adopt are terrified that their children will someday learn about the negative aspects of their child’s birth family history. “What if my son finds out that his birth father is in prison? What if he discovers that his birth mother is a prostitute, or drug addict? What if my daughter learns that…

  • Why Adopted Teens Prefer Isolation

    Why do adopted teens isolate? They have virtually no self esteem and figure no one would ever be as weird as them. When the meet a fellow adoptee who will share, dynamics change. They realize the are not alone and have hope for their future.

  • Confessions of An Adoptee Hoarder

    Our living room floor was scattered with tidbits of paper, scratched-out notes from my first conversation with birth relatives, photos of generations past, a handwritten will of my birth grandmother, the first card I received from my birth mother, the newspaper clipping with the hand carved ship my grandfather made for Henry Ford back in…

  • An Adoptee’s Wish List

    An Adoptee’s Wish List

    If only this could happen, the gaping wound in my adoptee soul would heal. If only… • I knew the names of my birth parents • I could access my original birth certificate • I could see my birth mother’s face • I could know medical history • I could find my missing birth father…

  • What Adoptees Deserve from Their Birth Mothers

    What Adoptees Deserve from Their Birth Mothers

    Dear friends through adoption, Remember the metaphor of the Great Eagle and the eaglet? I’ll be the eaglet today and tell you how it felt when I stepped on to the wing of the Great Eagle. Remember…the pain of the nest was too much for me…I couldn’t stand it….I cried to get out of the…

  • Adoptee Fantasies Must Wash Away

    Adoptee Fantasies Must Wash Away

    Dear friends through adoption, Oftentimes, we grow up believing fantasies about our birth family. Some imagine birth parents as a king and queen who live in a castle, concluding that life would indeed be wonderful when reunion occurs. I remember when I met with the intermediary that eventually found Elizabeth, my birth mother. We met…

  • Good Little Adoptees Must Let Go of Pleasing

    Good Little Adoptees Must Let Go of Pleasing

    Dear friends through adoption, As I began searching in earnest for my birth mother, I didn’t realize how hard it would be to let go of deep feelings of loyalty to my Mom and Dad. I was loyal to a fault, always wanting to please them and not knowing that beneath it all was attachment…

  • What Adoptees Wish Others Would Say About Searching

    Dear friends, The reactions of my family members hurt and I didn’t understand why they wouldn’t back me searching for my birth mother. My husband said, “Sherrie, she shut the door 47 years ago and if you try to open it, you may get hurt.” Translating what my Dad might have been thinking…well, I don’t…

  • An Adoptee’s Heart-Wrenching Decision to Search

    Dear friends through adoption, After hearing my family’s silences, judgments, and sarcasm about possibly searching for my birth mother, I made a very difficult decision. It was a decision that was new to me, even though at the time, I was 47 years old. I was like an overgrown eaglet who had stayed in the…