Tag: adoptive family

  • Many Adopted Kids Want Parents to Address Their Curiosities About Birth Family

    Many Adopted Kids Want Parents to Address Their Curiosities About Birth Family

    Is it okay to ask the hospital where I was born for my medical records? Is it okay to ask for non-identifying information about my birth mother and birth father? Is it okay to say that I’m curious about them and might like to meet them some day? Is it okay to be angry about…

  • What It Feels Like to Be A 12+ Year-Old Adoptee or Foster Kid

    What It Feels Like to Be A 12+ Year-Old Adoptee or Foster Kid

    This is another wonderful article from JEWELS NEWS, written by Samantha Jones,  Fall 1997 Issue. Hello, my name is Samantha and I am 12 1/2 years old. I’m Afro-American. I’m adopted. I’ve been with my adopted family for about eight years now. Being adopted to me means being with the permanent family. Sometimes I wonder…

  • Yikes…Tell the WHOLE Truth?

    Many parents who adopt are terrified that their children will someday learn about the negative aspects of their child’s birth family history. “What if my son finds out that his birth father is in prison? What if he discovers that his birth mother is a prostitute, or drug addict? What if my daughter learns that…

  • Maximizing Pressure-Packed Days

    As children of God, we are all in the wonderful process of being healed by our Great Physician, Jesus. His healing can be evidenced in a new-found appreciation for life, as we learn to enjoy Him. Webster’s defines appreciation like this: “To be grateful for; to value highly; to place a high estimate on; to…