Tag: foster mom

  • What Happened To My Adoptive Mom’s Wedding Ring…and Me

    What Happened To My Adoptive Mom’s Wedding Ring…and Me

    Taking them out, something strange started happening deep inside me.I thought about my late Dad picking them for Mom.Where did he get them? And, why did he pick this design? And…what was it like for both of them when he asked her to marry him? Did they hug, kiss? Did he get down on one…

  • What Can Adoptive and Foster Mamas Do When Rejected?

    What Can Adoptive and Foster Mamas Do When Rejected?

    As an adopted person, I can’t imagine what it’s like to be rejected by your children. I believe foster and adoptive moms are some of the bravest people I’ve ever met because most of the time, their efforts and love are not received. What should moms do? This is one major step that will keep…

  • How Will Your Adopted or Foster Child Remember You?

    How Will Your Adopted or Foster Child Remember You?

    As her child, in the deep loss, I would have loved to have a timeless memory that she’d created for me. Something I could hold in my hands and remember the values and beliefs she held dear. I’m sure she wondered with an attachment disordered kid what I would say about her effectiveness in parenting.…